You don’t have to like everybody you meet, nor should you.

You don’t have to like everybody you meet, nor should you.In this world of “we must get along”, when we don’t we are made to feel awkward, self important, mean and nasty if we don’t embrace and welcome every single person that we meet into our lives. An example of this mindset can be found on social media, look at how quickly and easily we add friends and how slow or reluctant we are to unfriend them. This is the conditioning of having to like everybody regardless of whether we actually get along or not.While going through life as a generalisation will meet more people that we like than those we don’t. But those people that aren’t a vibrational match for us or their energy just doesn’t gel, or even if they’ve actually done you or someone you care about wrong should not be welcomed into our lives because those people are crossing boundaries and if we accept them into our lives, then we have compromised our own boundaries. When making new friends or meeting new people it’s imperative to know your boundaries on the behaviours that you will accept And stand strong in them when those behaviour levels aren’t met.Likewise, when you just don’t gel with someone for no particular reason, you don’t have to include them in your life. Again, you don’t have to lower the quality of the relationships you have with your friends, just to accommodate someone that you don’t really click with. You are allowed to not like people you’re also allowed to not get along with them and not want to spend time with them. It’s not casting judgement upon them. It’s respecting your own rules and boundaries and your sense of self worth to maintain the level of friendships and relationships that you are prepared to except.

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Client Testimonials

Geoff has helped me immensely with his wisdom and caring personality during our sessions. I have seen many psychologists and therapists through the years, that don't have the persona he does and how he helps you with  your problems and life in general. I couldn't recommend him enough.


Can't speak highly enough of Geoff. He has helped me in many ways. I loom forward to every session. I have never been one to like therapists or consulting but Geoff gives u tools and reasons rather than just listening and taking ya money 😂😂 seriously give it a try. I'm glad I did.


After having lived through an abusive, emotional and verbal, relationship for 15 years . i had developed some bad mindsets and thought patterns. So i decided to See Geoff and work out some ways to reset my mind set and put some structures in place to help me change both the way I thought and my lifestyle. I also had a major phobia about dentists, so spoke to Geoff about this. After only one session he showed me a handy little tip, which i also use for other fears now too, which helped me conquer my phobia. And now have gone on to have extensive dental work without any fear at all. Starting Life Coaching with Geoff was the best decision i have ever made and would gladly recommend anyone who has any self doubts or issues, to book in with him.    


I've been seeing Geoff as a life coach since the end of May to help come to an understanding of a long term relationship ending. Through these sessions he has been able to help me identify the loss and grief that has surrounded me and help me understand that it's normal and nothing to be ashamed of and slowly accepting it. Through out our lessons he would cheer me on for what I thought were small achievements he celebrated as massive. He has helped me understand my values, why they are so important and how they make me the amazing person I am. Geoff has been incredibly understanding and nonjudgmental with everything I have spoken to him about. There's still a long way to go but knowing I have sessions with him makes it not feel so difficult anymore and he has introduced me into a lot of helpful coping strategies for my off days.


I have never used a life coach before, but after going through some major life changing events last year I needed some help.  Geoff was able to help me see things more clearly so my mind could calm down.  Geoff thankyou so much!