Why do the same things always happen to me? Why do I attract the same sort of people?Do you ever wonder why some people spend their whole lives in the same pattern, doing the same things that had negative or no impact in growing their lives? Have you ever felt that no matter how hard you try you just can’t improve your place in life? No matter how much money you have you’re always broke.Why do you think that is? What is it that makes the pattern repeat? What is the one constant through all of the events that keep things the same or indeed, makes it worse?It’s you, or, more importantly, it’s what you feel you deserve. No, I’m not talking about the surface level. Everybody says that they want to be treated with respect and care and love and any other collection of nice things. However, what do you feel inside? How do you feel like you deserve to be treated? How is your mindset around money? Do you have a poverty mindset, do you feel like your parents struggled so therefore you should struggle as well because that’s normal? Are you use to partners that don’t treat you well so that’s what you feel you deserve? Do you hide what you look like because of the fear of being attacked again?You need to decide that you actually deserve better. Not that you just want it, that you have the right to choose what you’ll accept into your life, and what you will reject. You have to decide that you are worth it. You will attract what you deserve because you will see what you think you deserve. So why not set your “I deserve…” bar higher.