Why do the same things always happen to me? Why do I attract the same sort of people?

Why do the same things always happen to me? Why do I attract the same sort of people?Do you ever wonder why some people spend their whole lives in the same pattern, doing the same things that had negative or no impact in growing their lives? Have you ever felt that no matter how hard you try you just can’t improve your place in life? No matter how much money you have you’re always broke.Why do you think that is? What is it that makes the pattern repeat? What is the one constant through all of the events that keep things the same or indeed, makes it worse?It’s you, or, more importantly, it’s what you feel you deserve. No, I’m not talking about the surface level. Everybody says that they want to be treated with respect and care and love and any other collection of nice things. However, what do you feel inside? How do you feel like you deserve to be treated? How is your mindset around money? Do you have a poverty mindset, do you feel like your parents struggled so therefore you should struggle as well because that’s normal? Are you use to partners that don’t treat you well so that’s what you feel you deserve? Do you hide what you look like because of the fear of being attacked again?You need to decide that you actually deserve better. Not that you just want it, that you have the right to choose what you’ll accept into your life, and what you will reject. You have to decide that you are worth it. You will attract what you deserve because you will see what you think you deserve. So why not set your “I deserve…” bar higher.

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Client Testimonials

Geoff has helped me immensely with his wisdom and caring personality during our sessions. I have seen many psychologists and therapists through the years, that don't have the persona he does and how he helps you with  your problems and life in general. I couldn't recommend him enough.


Can't speak highly enough of Geoff. He has helped me in many ways. I loom forward to every session. I have never been one to like therapists or consulting but Geoff gives u tools and reasons rather than just listening and taking ya money 😂😂 seriously give it a try. I'm glad I did.


After having lived through an abusive, emotional and verbal, relationship for 15 years . i had developed some bad mindsets and thought patterns. So i decided to See Geoff and work out some ways to reset my mind set and put some structures in place to help me change both the way I thought and my lifestyle. I also had a major phobia about dentists, so spoke to Geoff about this. After only one session he showed me a handy little tip, which i also use for other fears now too, which helped me conquer my phobia. And now have gone on to have extensive dental work without any fear at all. Starting Life Coaching with Geoff was the best decision i have ever made and would gladly recommend anyone who has any self doubts or issues, to book in with him.    


I've been seeing Geoff as a life coach since the end of May to help come to an understanding of a long term relationship ending. Through these sessions he has been able to help me identify the loss and grief that has surrounded me and help me understand that it's normal and nothing to be ashamed of and slowly accepting it. Through out our lessons he would cheer me on for what I thought were small achievements he celebrated as massive. He has helped me understand my values, why they are so important and how they make me the amazing person I am. Geoff has been incredibly understanding and nonjudgmental with everything I have spoken to him about. There's still a long way to go but knowing I have sessions with him makes it not feel so difficult anymore and he has introduced me into a lot of helpful coping strategies for my off days.


I have never used a life coach before, but after going through some major life changing events last year I needed some help.  Geoff was able to help me see things more clearly so my mind could calm down.  Geoff thankyou so much!