Whoa back there champ! With one week left to go it’s time for your reminder to disengage from the stress that often comes with this time of year.As we barrel headlong into this Christmas we can find ourselves caught up in the stresses of trying to organise families,food and functions, these 3 Fs will rob you blind of the joy and fun that is supposed to be Christmas. I’m not talking about Christmas in the religious sense that’s a whole another topic. I mean Christmas in the coming together of people that care about each other and spending time with those that we care about.While there certainly will be people who have to spend time with people that they only see at Christmas and would probably prefer not to see it all. To those people I say embrace the ones that you want to see and be polite to those that you don’t. Don’t react to somebody else’s presence in a way that detracts from your day and your mood.End this year on fun note for yourself, start the New Year with a sense of fun and allow yourself to be joyful in spite of the people that seem to want to push you the other way.To enjoy this time of year is the choice that you can make, and that you alone are responsible for.And if you know someone who is going to be alone this Christmas invite them to yours. For them to know that they are cared for and thought of will be their most treasured gift.Creating your tomorrow today.