What sort of people do I want in my life?

What sort of people do I want in my life?While on the surface this is a pretty easy question to answer. We tend to want people who are trustworthy, giving, caring, loving, encouraging, supporting, etc. These are all great traits that add value to our lives, these people enrich us with their presence.But often, we allow people to behave in ways that pull us down, degrades us, and make us think less of ourselves. Their negativity has an affect on us, studies show that your environment becomes a part of who you are. It would make sense then to keep these negative or narcissistic people in your life will have a negative affect on you, the world that you create around you and your opinion of yourself.We have to ask ourselves a question, why would we accept, embrace and keep these sorts of people in our lives? What possible benefit to there be? Has allowing negative people to sit in our lives become our comfort zone? Do we allow those people a presence because it makes ourselves feel better about our own perceived failings?It takes a conscious shift and a leap of faith to no longer give the people who try and pull you down and stop you from growing a place in your life. But what it does do is open the door for an incredible opportunity to bring amazing, uplifting, supportive and loving people into your life. These people will always encourage you to discover who you are, and where you want to go, and they will support you on that journey because they genuinely want what is best for you.Now look at the role that you play in other people‘s lives, are you one of the ones that champions others and encourages them to achieve all of their desires and wants in life? Or, do you belittle and pull them down in order to hide your own insecurities? This requires a very raw and honest look at yourself and your motives, but one that is very necessary to set you on your true journey and path.You are in complete control of who you allow into, and then to stay in your life, based on the way, they treat you. Just as you are completely responsible for how you treat others in order to protect yourself or to see them grow. Choose wisely.

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Client Testimonials

Geoff has helped me immensely with his wisdom and caring personality during our sessions. I have seen many psychologists and therapists through the years, that don't have the persona he does and how he helps you with  your problems and life in general. I couldn't recommend him enough.


Can't speak highly enough of Geoff. He has helped me in many ways. I loom forward to every session. I have never been one to like therapists or consulting but Geoff gives u tools and reasons rather than just listening and taking ya money 😂😂 seriously give it a try. I'm glad I did.


After having lived through an abusive, emotional and verbal, relationship for 15 years . i had developed some bad mindsets and thought patterns. So i decided to See Geoff and work out some ways to reset my mind set and put some structures in place to help me change both the way I thought and my lifestyle. I also had a major phobia about dentists, so spoke to Geoff about this. After only one session he showed me a handy little tip, which i also use for other fears now too, which helped me conquer my phobia. And now have gone on to have extensive dental work without any fear at all. Starting Life Coaching with Geoff was the best decision i have ever made and would gladly recommend anyone who has any self doubts or issues, to book in with him.    


I've been seeing Geoff as a life coach since the end of May to help come to an understanding of a long term relationship ending. Through these sessions he has been able to help me identify the loss and grief that has surrounded me and help me understand that it's normal and nothing to be ashamed of and slowly accepting it. Through out our lessons he would cheer me on for what I thought were small achievements he celebrated as massive. He has helped me understand my values, why they are so important and how they make me the amazing person I am. Geoff has been incredibly understanding and nonjudgmental with everything I have spoken to him about. There's still a long way to go but knowing I have sessions with him makes it not feel so difficult anymore and he has introduced me into a lot of helpful coping strategies for my off days.


I have never used a life coach before, but after going through some major life changing events last year I needed some help.  Geoff was able to help me see things more clearly so my mind could calm down.  Geoff thankyou so much!