I never get what I want! How many times have you said those words? You have a clear vision of what you want but it doesn’t happen. Someone or something didn’t come through for you.Did you actually ask for it? Or did you just hold the hope in your mind and then be let down because it didn’t happen? Sometimes we use not asking as a safety net, we can’t be too disappointed if we never really put it out there. We have been conditioned into believing that not doing anything and getting nothing hurts less than trying and it not coming through.If you want it, ask for it. Ask the people involved, ask how you can achieve what you want too. When you ask you create a pathway, you can see the progression to getting what you want.2 steps are required:1 Ask2 Act.You can’t do the second without having done the first.You are responsible for what you achieve and what you don’t.