How long until you put yourself first? Giving of our time and energy to others is an essential part of who we are, and how we should behave. Often becomes a convenient. Excuse to not dedicate time energy to ourselves we’re often heard uttering things like “I’ve got too much work on, the kids are driving and there’s just not enough time in the day.” While on occasion. These are very legitimate and valid reasons for not dedicating time to the things that we want to work on, they can also become an excuse that we are justifying our own minds do not give ourselves the time that we now actually need.You will not move forward in who you are or who you want to be until you decide to elevate your position on your list of priorities. There’s no does not mean abandoning the children or your responsibilities, really not using the them as an excuse to sit in your comfort zone and remain numb to your personal growth and development.It’s time to ask yourself how much has not looking after yourself and your needs cost you? We often remain where we are no matter how negative it may be because what we know, and we understand how we will react to it. You have to decide that the idea of nothing changing and nothing improving invokes more fear than the concept of moving forward into the you that you truly want to be. When is the time to put you first?