Have you ever been let down by someone you thought would support you?Did the person you felt would be there turn their back? This can be a really difficult thing to deal with especially when stacked on top of the original issues that were already crushing you.But seeming out of nowhere comes the support, finally a shoulder to lean on! From someone you never expected. They come to you and are genuine in their strength for you. They actually care without an agenda, without judgement and without the need for you to pay them back.What does all this have to do with personal growth? It serves to remind us that we need to remain open to unseen positives that are at times right in front of us. But if we are restricting our vision to only what we want to see then we will miss great opportunities. Also, it shows that when we are fixated on what we see as the one solitary solution, it can lead us down the road of self destruction and heartbreak.Take off you blinkers and look for all your options, not just what has worked for you in the past. You’ll be surprised where the brightest light comes from.