Have you ever been let down by someone you admired?

Have you ever been let down by someone you admired?Have you put someone on the pedestal only to find that they are human, and had the ability to struggle just like the rest of us? We can often develop fanciful ideas of someone’s personality and idealise their behaviours. We have all heard stories of people meeting celebrities that they were fans of only to be let down or even devastated by their behaviour towards them.As humans subject to the constructed society around us we are taught that most everyone is in a better place than arse. That comparatively they have their shit together. When that illusion is dissolved in front of us we can often feel betrayed and deceived by that person. When in truth we have only been deceived by ourselves, we have decided how a person is and how they behave based purely on our own judgement, while not knowing this person in any real way.For us this often leads to feelings of further decreased self-worth while at the same time a resentment towards those that we had built-up in our mind. It’s important to recognise that just like us those around us also have their own floors, faults and shortcomings. But it is also up to us to accept them and include those things in our perception of them. Nobody is a 10 out of 10, those that have convinced themselves that they are are only presenting a false image to themselves and those around them.We have to learn to embrace our own faults and the faults of others, removing judgement when we discovered them.A persons identity is not what they think they are, nor what we think we are, their true identity is what they think we think they are. Just as our own identity is based in what we think others think of us.What is your identity?

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Client Testimonials

Geoff has helped me immensely with his wisdom and caring personality during our sessions. I have seen many psychologists and therapists through the years, that don't have the persona he does and how he helps you with  your problems and life in general. I couldn't recommend him enough.


Can't speak highly enough of Geoff. He has helped me in many ways. I loom forward to every session. I have never been one to like therapists or consulting but Geoff gives u tools and reasons rather than just listening and taking ya money 😂😂 seriously give it a try. I'm glad I did.


After having lived through an abusive, emotional and verbal, relationship for 15 years . i had developed some bad mindsets and thought patterns. So i decided to See Geoff and work out some ways to reset my mind set and put some structures in place to help me change both the way I thought and my lifestyle. I also had a major phobia about dentists, so spoke to Geoff about this. After only one session he showed me a handy little tip, which i also use for other fears now too, which helped me conquer my phobia. And now have gone on to have extensive dental work without any fear at all. Starting Life Coaching with Geoff was the best decision i have ever made and would gladly recommend anyone who has any self doubts or issues, to book in with him.    


I've been seeing Geoff as a life coach since the end of May to help come to an understanding of a long term relationship ending. Through these sessions he has been able to help me identify the loss and grief that has surrounded me and help me understand that it's normal and nothing to be ashamed of and slowly accepting it. Through out our lessons he would cheer me on for what I thought were small achievements he celebrated as massive. He has helped me understand my values, why they are so important and how they make me the amazing person I am. Geoff has been incredibly understanding and nonjudgmental with everything I have spoken to him about. There's still a long way to go but knowing I have sessions with him makes it not feel so difficult anymore and he has introduced me into a lot of helpful coping strategies for my off days.


I have never used a life coach before, but after going through some major life changing events last year I needed some help.  Geoff was able to help me see things more clearly so my mind could calm down.  Geoff thankyou so much!