Going with the flow does not mean just letting things happen.It’s often confused that the spiritual definition of going with the flow is to just allow what happens to happen to believe that it is directed by the universe or God whenever you’re higher belief is. To just except everything as it is in your rewards will be bought to you and given freely to you.When the true meaning of going with the flow is actually based in the acceptance of when things don’t go as you plan to not let them dissuade you from continuing your journey. these types of experiences will present themselves regardless of whether you are in the flow or not, it is your responsibility to allow these negative experiences to flow past you without effecting your mindset, self-worth or direction.One of the easiest ways to do this is to look for the lesson in all things, once you understand a negative event and take the learning that it contains into your life you are then free to let that experience continue on its journey without you.To maintain flow takes work, drive and ambition, to get stuck in the river and have flow try and push you back takes inaction and laziness.